MAIL Order Brides and second-timers
Like my wise friend "Maxx-Buddy" told me "If you cannot imagine yourself sitting on a porch in rocking chairs and growing old together then let it pass". That takes wise, mature and quality mail order brides to give the rest of their lives for their man.
Maxx
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As far as being married previously, it seems that the majority of posters are "second timers" and have been married before.
I think this is worth investigating further...how many mail order brides relationships are "rebounds"? I remember one poster here saying that he wanted to make his ex jealous (originally) by showing up with a smokinghotkova in tow....although he eventually learned this was absolutely the wrong motivation for marriage.
I do wonder how many here married mail order brides and it was their very first marriage?
I'm sure there are quite a few.
But I would like to hear the thinking or rationale behind why this was included...as it could just as easily be, don't marry mail order brides within (fill in the blank, 1-5 years maybe) of your first, second or third marriage?
I'm also pretty sure that you can't arbitrarily say someone under 30 shouldn't marry mail order brides. Isn't that a bit ridiculous...think if you said an American man shouldn't marry until he was age 30...or a woman? Should all foreign women be forced to accept husbands 20-40 years older than they are? In reality, I would think, despite not having the same financial stability as some of the "veterans" who look abroad...that the divorce rates would be the same or lower for couples where both the man and wife are in their 20's upon marriage. Although it's probably a fairly small sample compared to the men in their 30's, 40's, 50's and a few in their early 60's.
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I like and agree with your post. I have been corresponding with my girl for 16months ,letters ,email , phone Just spent two weeks with her and she wants to visit my country. So here's hoping ! 2 points I will make to reinforce your case .1) If you cant strike up a friendship by corresponding with mail order brides don't bother going on a tour. Of course if you got heaps of gold and time by all means tour! I think you can be 90% sure you would like to marry someone by photos and corresponding. So going to visit I had proposal in mind to bring things to a head. But with mail order brides its subject to conditions etc!
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