My reasoning, applied to 1st meeting proposals, is that a man who has been married before knows what marriage is like. And doing it the 2nd time takes much more confidence in knowing you have the right person than the 1st time, IMO.

Now being under 30 was mentioned only because a man in his 20s has much more maturing to do. Again, I'm only relating this to proposing during the 1st meeting. I wish I had found mail order brides when I was in my 20s. I think a man this young should wait longer before proposing because it's amazing how a man's mind changes from the 20s to the 40s. A man in his 40s or 50s knows more about what he wants in mail order brides. Again, only my opinion.

Mark

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JMark,

I truly wish you the best. That being said, I am curious about your statement: And just how did you prove it? And what is ok? I would think that the proof of it (a successful marriage?) would be some where out in your future. To declare success at this point is rather silly. To offer advice on how to assure a successful marriage with mail order brides, at your experience level is even sillier. :wall: Get back to us in a year, 2 years and maybe even 3 or 4 with your "success" story. I do however agree that your post should have been in the newbie section with the title "premature ejaculation"

KenC

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Kenc,

I would be more worried about your future than mine, being married to a lady 25 years younger than you. I have seen it over over in the later years with large age differences such as yours. When "premature ejaculation" is something you used to be able to do, do you think mail order brides in their mid 30s will give up their sexuality for the rest of their lives for you? So ride on your high horse now because I feel sorry for you down the road. Gloat while you can. mail order brides proposals