MAIL Order Brides - The pluses and minuses
5) You are not sure about this whole mail order brides idea.
5 -- "Well, duh!"
6) You think you must propose because you won't be able to visit again for 6-10 months (Proposals by phone are acceptable).
6 -- disagree with the caveat. Proposals by phone are, to my mind, not acceptable.
7) Your hair will be much more grey in 8 months.
7 -- Is this really a problem?
8) You want to impress mail order brides.
8 -- agree. But I think that's harder to determine than some guys want to admit...
9) You only corresponded with a few letters.
9 -- agree, though I think you'd have to define "a few"
10) You didn't talk to mail order brides on the phone many times.
10 -- disagree... I never spoke on the phone with Viktoriya until after we were engaged. Similarly, some guys can go and spend weeks with mail order brides without ever talking on the phone with them...
11) You have never been married before.
11 -- Disagree. God, I wish I could have found Viktorya without having gone through a divorce...
12) You are under 30 years of age.
12 -- Disagree. Though I think very few guys under thirty have the disposable income -- or reason -- to pursue mail order brides. I think you only start thinking outside of the box when you have been burned a few times inside of it... but that's just my opinion...
13) Your interest is solely sexual.
13 -- agreed. If your interest is purely sexual, go to Brazil :lol:
14) You have been drinking much alcohol and have the courage.
14 -- agree, but it is silly... if you've been drinking too much, you won't be thinking about any silly rules, anyway...
15) You think you are ugly and the attention from mail order brides has given you confidence.
15 -- Again, a silly rule. No one thinks they are ugly. Similarly, no one thinks they are too old, or out of shape. I have yet to read an introductory post that goes: "Hi, I am too old, fat and balding, but I want a hot wife... did I come to the right place?" Usually we get: "I am in good shape (I do 50 pushups every night before I go to bed!), and I don't look my age -- people are always telling me I look 20 years younger than I am -- seriously, just last week I got carded... and I have my own business, and I just bought a Hummer and a $350K dollar house... I think mail order brides would be lucky to get me... I'm not like all of the other losers on here..."
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