You're likely not going to find "the one" randomly in one or two trips.

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BC ~ For me, what you suggest meeting mail order brides is the only way I could do it.

But then not too many have the benefit of time and resource that a few of us, in different ways have.

I think that you have a good point in respect of the ease of introduction into the mail order brides process. Rejection, if it comes at all, comes by email. Contact is not made with a person, but a picture. Oh, how much easier than dealing with real people, real emotions!

IMHO much of the meandering about different tactics overlooks the flaws in the strategy. For example, we should not be asking which is better, WOVO or WMVM, but instead ask, as you note, why reject women, why do we seek a route that minimizes and disguises the real emotional involvement, saving it up for later, when it is even harder to deal with?

Perhaps if there was as much consideration of the strategy of mate selection as compared to the, subordinate, tactics of selection, then we would have a very different discussion group, but one that had a greater chance of fostering successful long term relationships with mail order brides.

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BC,
With all due respect... I think you have an advantage here that cannot be underestimated: You've found your woman.

So, it's pretty damn easy to sit back now and say: "Hey, let chance guide you!"

To a guy who is still looking, this is like having a millionaire say to them: "You know how I made my million dollars? I played the Lottery. That's what you should do!"

That may be true... but it is not helpful, because it is not truly reproduceable.

I have some of the same problems when someone asks me for "advice."

I was in Brazil when Viktoriya contacted me for the first time.

So, should my advice be: "Here's what you do... you put a personal ad in Ukraine, and then go off to Brazil and wait for mail order brides to contact you!"

In other words, just because it worked for you (or me), doesn't mean that it will work for someone else.... which is true about any system that is employed. mail order brides in the personal ads