MAIL Order Brides and the big mistake
So, once again, the object is for mail order brides to fall for you and not for you to fall for them. Too many guys just see the great photos and fall in love with them. This is the big mistake. Hell, there are plenty of good looking mail order brides on the internet. The point is that you can be choosy. However, if you are bald, short and fat I suggest you lose the fat. :)
I just read a thread about a guy visiting Kherson who has not been able to spend any time alone with his chosen gal. This is not good. You can read this in many of the trip reports as well: the gal always brings a friend with, the gal never goes to his flat, etc. The lesson is that in your correspondence and your telephone conversations you must get her to desire you. Obviously, this guy did little romancing during his pre-trip communications. Yes, you must set the groundwork so that she wants to spend time alone with you. :)
In my latest communications with one of the mail order brides, she suggested yesterday that we take a weekend trip together (she has it all planned out already) when I visit. This is a gal who still lives at home with her parents. So, she has already made the decision that she desires intimacy or at least the opportunity for some. Believe me, I am not some great lover or player. I have just let her know during the past few weeks that I desire her physically and not just spiritually.
I take this game very seriously. I am looking for a wife and not just a tour or sex. I have been to Russia two times to visit one gal and had a very good experience. It did not end in marriage, but I learned a lot about mail order brides in general. They definitely want to be romanced and loved by their man. And, of course, this romancing should begin in the pre-trip communications.
Matt
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I would say that the object is for you both to "fall..."
But I am curious about one thing, Matt... although I agree with much of what you say... would you do this with more than one of the mail order brides at a time?
Are you writing sexual/romantic emails and having telephone "pillow-talk" with several women?
Or do you think this technique can only be used by a WOVO guy...?
Because, for me, it makes a difference.
By the time Viktoriya and I had progressed to this stage in our letter writing, I was writing -- and considering -- no one but her...
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