The majority of men that write to my mail order brides are severely lacking in swooning skills,(yes I read most of the letters) real yawners. THEN, the few that do show up are about as manly as milk toast.

When I ask the girl how is it going with the man (willy nelly ones), the normal answer is, "nice guy but would not want children with him because he is not a man". No joke, it is a real problem for guys visiting the mail order brides here.

Is there such thing as masculinity classes for the emasculated?
I don't suggest acting macho, just have some confidence in yourself. A little goes a long way!

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Matt, have you been reading my letters? :chuckle:
This is almost exactly how I close my letters. As far as the sexual innuendo's in letters being translated, it is probably not suggested or hasn't been said in letters in my case. The phrase, "not to be translated" has been inserted where the innuendo is started.
It definitely leaves your imagination open to when you go over there to meet your mail order brides. Many topics have been discussed, but the sex part is probably left best when your actually there and can read their eyes and gestures.

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This game is not about trip planning and red flags, but romance.

I could not agree more.

I'm glad that Matt clarified his technique. After his first post I was imagining some hopeful romantic blowing his phone pal relationship by rushing to interject a "hey baby, what color panties you wearin'?" at the most awkward and inappropriate moment of a conversation.

Yes, if you are looking for a woman, a lover, a wife... this should be about romance.

One thing you should not forget is that this does not become real until you step foot in this foreign land. All the pre trip romance is a fantasy, maybe a good fantasy, and maybe a dream that comes true, but a fantasy nevertheless. Do not expect mail order brides to jump your bones the moment you've landed just because you've romanced them over the net. (They might, but don't count on it). Be prepared to romance them again.